Stargazing Tents. Photo courtesy of Jason Wang (@jwang815)

Why Dating Apps Don’t Work Well

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Fairytrail is often described as Tinder for travelers. However, after 5 years of experimenting in dating and becoming the number one dating app for remote workers, we found that the current dating app concept doesn’t work well because of market dynamics and business incentives (see original thesis). 

In this article, we’ll share our findings and our new approach.

 

Gender imbalance 

Despite our focus on remote dating which evens out gender imbalance compared to intra-city dating, there’s still a lot of overall gender imbalance which makes it difficult to match. 

Let’s take a look at Monthly Active User gender split on Fairytrail as of Jan 1, 2024

Gender Split For Fairytrail: Friends & Dating For Travelers

Gender Split For Fairytrail: Friends & Dating For Travelers

Compare this to when we were a travel matching and booking app in 2019 and 2020. The concept was we’d help you find a romantic partner to go on a fun adventure with, then you’d safely book the activity on our platform. Read a review of how it workedThis was our gender ratio. 

Gender Split For Fairytrail: Adventure Matching

Note: We pivoted to a traditional dating app for travelers because we couldn’t earn revenue selling adventures during Covid in 2020.

 

Losing users too quickly

Some users would find their romantic partner in a week, while others would feel demoralized and leave in a week. Businesses are hard with extreme churn. We’d need crazy incoming traffic to support this.

 

Revenue is tied to keeping users

We didn’t want to offer 3 month, 6 month, or 1 year plans to keep our users on our platform when our purpose was to help people find love quickly. There is a dating app paradox here. 

 

Unhealthy behaviors 

When it comes to love, people become a bit crazy. There’s a lot of emotions, hurt feelings, and burnout. This went against our philosophy to improve health and relationships. 

The larger trend is dating apps are suffering declines, struggling for direction, and people are looking for alternatives. Demand is there, it’s just the solution sucks. This could be a great opportunity to build a dating app alternative. 

 

No room for friends

When Fairytrail was a friends and dating app, it was hard for people to make friends because there was a dating feel. People couldn’t just connect because they found each other interesting. Even with clear labels it was confusing as people often didn’t even know themselves if they wanted to date or be friends with the other person.  

 

The trail ahead

Our solution is to avoid dating. Instead, just get people connected and out on adventures. Relationships are built through experiences, and our job is to make it safer and more exciting. We’ll realize our mission to improve health by getting people out in the sun, getting fresh air, walking, and deepening connections.

The new version of Fairytrail is all about discovering fun activities and finding people to do it with. Get inspired with fun activities, build your bucket list, and connect with travelers to make your dreams come true. Read about our redesigned adventure matching app here

Click here to discuss on HN or comment below.

Written by Taige Zhang
Photo courtesy of Jason Wang (@jwang815)

Sun Odyssey 440

Sail the Greek Islands for Free: Celebrating Fairytrail’s New Bucket List Feature!

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We excited to announce a new feature to help you discover inspiring bucket list activities, create your own bucket list, and connect with fellow travelers who share your dreams.

To promote the launch, we’re doing one of the bucket list activities– sail the Greek Islands. We are giving away 5 free spots (3 already filled with influencers with 100k+ followers). If you’re interested in helping us promote our launch, follow us on Instagram @fairytrailapp and comment “bucket list”. Ideally, you should be in the remote work or travel space and have 10k+ followers.

 

Why we made a social bucket list app

When we go to work and watch Netflix on repeat, it’s easy to forget how beautiful and magical our world is. 

The truth is we’re so lucky to be alive and our time on this planet is short. We have a world of incredible experiences just waiting for us. Unfortunately, many of us don’t know where to start and who to do it with.

Our bucket list helps you discover fun things to do, save it to your own list, and connect with people to do it together. 

With our social bucket list, you’ll feel grateful to be alive and inspired. You’ll find people who want to join you on your quests and dreams.

 

How did we get this idea for this?

We discovered Fairytrail members are already making bucket lists– in their head, spreadsheets, Pinterest, notes app. When I heard about their dream activities it blew my mind and got me excited. I wanted to steal their ideas and join them. These activities brought me a sense of excitement and gratitude. 

To give you an idea, here’s what some of their bucket list activities include

  • Shear a sheep
  • Sail the Greek Islands in a yacht
  • Fly a Kite at the Cervia International Kite Festival 
  • Gamble at The Venetian Macao in Macao, China
  • Eat at an Undersea Restaurant Ithaa (Maldivian for ‘pearl’), on the Maldivian island of Rangalifnolhu
  • Cage-Dive with Crocodiles in Darwin City, Australia
  • Attend the Running of the Bulls in Pamplona, Spain as a Spectator
  • Drink Beer at Oktoberfest in Munich, Germany
  • Shark diving off the coast of South Africa
  • Visit Harbin Ice Festival
  • Kayak in the Bioluminescent Bay of Fajardo, Puerto Rico
  • Float in the Dead Sea
  • Move to Peru and run a hostel 
  • Cycle from San Francisco to Los Angeles
  • Go to the Peruvian Amazon for 8 days with shamans on an Ayahuasva retreat
  • Do a week long silent meditation retreat in Thailand
  • Live on a remote Colombian coffee farm
  • Go on a psychic retreat to an Italian castle in Tuscany
  • Attend a Taylor Swift concert
  • Visit Finland to stay in an igloo
  • Ride the Trans-Siberian Express across Asia
  • Skydive 1st time
  • Walk on the Great Wall of China

 

What is the Greek sailing trip about?

One of the bucket list activities is sailing the Greek Islands, and we wanted to make it come true. The yacht we’re chartering is the Sun Odyssey 440, a French sailboat that was designed by Philippe Briand and winner of World Boat of the Year: Most Innovative and the Family Cruiser European Yacht of the Year.

We’ll be inviting influencers who want to help us promote Fairytrail and experience the dream of sailing in the Mediterranean Sea. We’ll be departing from and returning to D-Marin Gouvia Marina in Corfu.

In return for helping us with promotion, you’ll get a dream adventure island hopping in Greece. Opportunity to shoot amazing footage for yourself. Hang out and promote with other influencers and the Fairytrail & Nomads Insure team. Possible mentions in press coverage. 

We’re targeting this trip to happen mid August, 2024.

Thanks for reading! See you on Fairytrail, the magical travel matching & bucket list app.

Written by Taige Zhang
CEO of Fairytrail